SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!!!! / Sonya Mitchell (Passerby) I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I WAS IN A VERY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, I KNOW HOW THINGS GO. MY MANY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW. BRENDA CAN YOU TELL MY PAPPA THAT I MISS HIM AND PLEASE KEEP HIM COMPANY UNTIL WE GET THERE TO MEET HIM AND HEAVENS GATES.....
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!!!! / Sonya Mitchell (Passerby) I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I WAS IN A VERY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, I KNOW HOW THINGS GO. MY MANY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW.
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!!!! / Sonya Mitchell (Passerby) I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I WAS IN A VERY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, I KNOW HOW THINGS GO. MY MANY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW.
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!!!! / Sonya Mitchell (Passerby) I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I WAS IN A VERY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, I KNOW HOW THINGS GO. MY MANY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW.
A life ended to soon / God Bless All Who Love Brenda
This beautiful girl should be here with her beautiful family, this story is so sad I'm so sorry to Brendas family & friends who in so much Pain this man is truly evil hes the devil he should rot in hell him and his buddys but just know beautiful Brenda justice will be served mostly when they die and have to face the Lord he will let them burn in hell...
Just passing by to give you a hug. / Amilah (online friend ) Dear Holly,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know its hard, and I wish I could take away some of the pain you are feeling.
Amilah (UmZ)
I miss you! / Dawn Garcia (Someone who loved her so much ) Im sorry that it has taken me so long to write something, I just dont know what to say. I have been on your site and reading everything that everyone has wrote. I have probably read them all more than once. I know that there are so many people that loved you and that is comforting but nothing makes me feel better. I look at your pictures and they bring back so many memories. Then comes the regret. Regreting that I havent been there in the last couple years. After Destiny passed we said we would stay in contact more often and we did for awhile, then after your "visit" here we had a bit of a falling out. I hadnt talked to you since then. Until 12/29/06 You were at Holly's and we talked on the phone for a bit. I am so glad that we talked. You told me how happy you were and that made me happpy. You see all I ever wanted was for you to be happy. You said you wanted me to come to joliet and I could stay at "Your crib". Then you told me about how you and Mercy were going to come up for a visit soon, & that I had better be prepared for a visit. How I wish it could still happen. I wish I could have seen you with your daughter. I know from seeing you with other kids that you were a great Mommy. I know you loved your daughter, I can see it in your eyes, I heard it in your voice. I am so glad you had the chance to know that special kind of love. Then fast forward to 12/31/06 - 1/1/07 Just after midnight I got your text message then I called you. you were at home with "Your Man and Daughter" watching movies and chillin. It was a short conversation, but the last one I would have with you. We wished each other a happy New Year and cut it short. As I hung up I relized I didnt say I love you, I didnt want to call back because I thought you would think This B!+(# is drunk. So I didnt call back. Man I love you. I guess we didnt have to say it because we both knew it. Without a doubt! But just let me tell you one more time I LOVE YOU, always did and I always will!!! Before I go I just want to ask you to say hi to everyone GIve your Mom my Dad and Destiny hugs from me and Ill write you again soon.
From a Sister Survivor, my prayers....... / Tracy Hommel (DV Survivor ) I don't have any words to say to make what has happened any better, but my prayers are with Brenda, her family, and her daughter that must grow up now without her Mother holding her.......I'm a Survivor, one of the lucky ones, but I also almost didn't make it. If there is ever anything I can do, please, let me know. Thank You Holly for letting me share her story so that maybe it can save yet another Victim........... Angel Hugs! Tracy Co-Owner/Web Developer of UAADV.org
so sorry / Nora Landis (passerby) so sorry for your loss, i feel your pain, my 17 year old daughter passed away in her sleep on 12-17-06 of a siezure we have no idea why. i will never get over the loss of her, it is so hard. all we can do is trust in god that our angels are safe up in heaven. god bless! from angel megan landis mom-nora landis
The Judge / Tia Owen (Friend) I wrote something when I was 19 years old...20 years ago. And, although it is no where near the same scenario...it truly holds the same message. This is for you Brenda and to any one who has ever suffered pain by the hands of another person I Love You, Brenda Greenwood...my brown girl with the white name. Peace in the Valley, Baby Girl.
The Judge
Her innocence showed Her youthfulness glowed Her eyes were bright Behold this sight.
So sweet and young So full of life So full of fun Behold this sight.
Out of the shadows Into the light His step on time Behold this sight.
The turn of her head The feel of the bite The pain of the night Behold this sight.
Lord you have seen How he took her life You are The Judge Behold YOUR sight.
.....Please God take care of this.
Beautiful Brenda / Angie Trevizo Christopher Trevizo (Angel Friend )
THE LORD IS TAKING GOOD CARE OF HER / ALMA JACOBS GONZALEZ (TO THE FAMILY ) IM NATALIA GUZMAN MOTHER,IM SO SORRY THIS HAPPEN TO BRENDA .I ALSO HAD A LIFE OF DOMESIC VIOLENCE, MY EX-HUSBAND CAME HOME ONE NIGHT AND STARTING BEATING AND KICKING ME. I TRIED TO LEAVE WITH MY (THEN) BABYS,I DIDNT KNOW HE HAD I GUN,HE THEN TOOK IT OUT AND SHOT ME .IN THE HEAD.I LAYED IN A COMA FOR SIX WEEKS.I IWOKE UP NOT REMEMBERING ANYTHING,FIRST THIG I DID WAS ASK FOR HIM,MY MOTHER ASKED DONT I KNOW WHAT HAPPENED.SHE TOLD ME.IT LEFT ME PARAZIED ON MY RIGHT SIDE. NOW I AM CRIPPLED FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS.MAY GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERY OF YOU.I JUST LOST A GRANDBABY TO SIDS.WE JUST DONT KNOW WHY THNGS HAPPEN THE WAY THEY DO
Sorry/ Cherie Millard (Visitor) I am so sorry for your loss, I am close to brenda's age and have been in many abusive relationships. I want you to know that what you wrote really touched me heart. God bless you and your family in this time of loss.
My Condolences / Sudi Ahmed (I know Holly ) I want to send you my deepest condolences on the loss of your Sister, She died in a horrible way enough to make us all cry and be sad
And I will never trust anyboady once they say they will kill me especially if his my lover.
And your sister so beautiful mashallah, Allah bless her and Send her to heaven, And may Allah protect and look after her daughter.
Some many ladies die through their partners, its totally unbelievable that they think its okay to kill once she has left you!!!!
Just showing you support even though I am oceans away and your sister I have never met but she is a human, a fellow female and is also just like my sister since she is your sister and I believe your my sister.
Salam
Sending our condolences to you & your family! / Neomi, Jerry &. Erin Miller (Family of Autumn, Michael & Gerald Miller )
To the Greenwood Family Sending our condolences to your family.. Such a tragic and senseless loss, your daughter was very beautiful. We are from Wisconsin. We lost all 3 of our children. Our only daughter (Autumn) and youngest son (Michael) passed away on September 1, 2005 to a one-vehicle accident that happened just 1/8 of a mile from our home. Then our other son (Gerald) passed away on July 31, 2006. Gerald was in such a state of depression after losing his brother and sister, we know that finally took a toll of him and his health. We are raising our granddaughter (Autumn's daughter, Erin). Please feel free to visit our children's websites, it means alot to know there are so many caring people out there. These websites keep us going thru so very difficult times. Our children's websites are: www.autumn-miller-jackson-1974-2005.memory-of.com www.michael-miller-1982-2005.memory-of.com www.geraldtravismiller.memory-of.com Keep with these websites, you will find it very uplifting.
Jerry, Neomi & Erin Miller
My deepest sympathy to your family / Linda Aceves (Mom to JBQuiming ) I am so sorry for the loss. There are no words who can express the pain we feel when we loose a loved one. I lost my son almost 5 months ago. He was shot for no reason in the back of the neck. I pray for you and your family. May God give you the strength and peace to deal with this awful tragedy. Just know that your beautiful Brenda is in a better place were there is no violence and even though we can not see our loved ones, they are always around us in spirit.
My heart goes out to you God Bless you
Linda
NOT LOST TO MEMORY! NOT LOST TO LOVE! BUT GONE TO OUR FATHER'S HOUSE ABOVE.....
A NEW BEGINNING OF ETERNAL LIFE.
I'm so very sorry.... / LuAnn ((Johnna's Gramma) )Read >>
I'm so very sorry.... / LuAnn ((Johnna's Gramma) )
I am so very sorry for this tragic loss you now have to endure. Your Brenda is a beautiful Angel now - safe - where no one can ever hurt her again... God Bless Your Broken Hearts... johnna-rusk.memory-of.com
*/ Blanca Lara (friend of sister )
Holly, I am so terribly sorry for your losses, I know that they are together in heaven looking upon you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and in my prayers. Don't forget I am only a phone call or a chat away, please call me anytime for anything. Again, I am truly sorry. Close
Senseless/ Dottie Butler Torres (passerby)
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know it can be devestating. My cousin Tammy was brutally killed by her husband 16 years ago at the age of 22. He had abused her for a while and she decided to leave. Her escape was to his sisters house. He had driven by and shot at the house with his sister and her kids and his kids in there. My cousin still trusted him enough to go for a walk with him to talk. They found her the weekend after Thanksgiving. He also committed suicide and there was a blizzard that night so it took a week for them to be found. I hurt so much for women who just can't get out. I pray for your comfort and your sister's peace. Close
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hes the devil he should rot in hell him and his buddys but just know beautiful Brenda justice will be served mostly when they die and have to face the Lord he will let them burn in hell...
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