happy valentine's day / Misty Mom Of Angel Zander Hodges HAPPY VALENTINE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SENDING LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY WATCH OVER MOMMY AND DADDY AS THEY SPRND VALENTINE WITHOUT YOU. LOVE AND HUGS ALWAYS AND 4-EVER ALL MY LOVE MISTY.
Happy Valentine's Day! / Dianne/Mom Of Angel Nicholas White
Tribute to a very loving granddaughter! / Barbara Greenwood (Grandma by marriage ) Your grandfather, John and I were so impressed when we met you, all grown up and such a sweet girl, when we saw and visited with you while your mom, Marilyn, was leaving us and entering her much deserved Heavenly Home with the Lord and now you are there with her and Destiny, waiting for us to join you in time to come. Please be our guardian angels and watch over us til we meet again. Love Barbara
hard reality / Holly Garza Ortega Brenda's Siter Always (Big Sister ) It seems like when I start coping it hits me harder, it has been a horrible day first I wanted to call you in the morning n realized I NEVER NEVER will be able too again
I just, I don't even know what to say, I have so much to say yet their are no words in the dictionary to describe the pain accuratly.
You were my lil thug passion my lil ghetto down to ride girl. I could call you depressed or mad n you, you would be their for me.
I cant its the worse pain in the world, I can't describe it.
Not only are we grieving but HOW you were killed the horrible reality of and what they did to you.
How can some destroy what they didnt create?!?!
Fuck, damnit I can't even write all I want or need to say.
No one gets in and they never will! I miss you
I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY! / Becky Everetts (friend from wisconsin ) I'm at a loss of words. I don't even know where to begin or what even to say! I visit your site a lot and I never pay my respect. Well nows the time. You were a wonderful friend to me and it's a friendship that I let slip away, and I'm going to regret that everyday. I haven't seen you since '97, after looking at your site, I feel that we would have still been best of friends. You were the only one who could ever cheer me up. Your crazy jokes, I always wondered where you came up with those. WE had some good times!! I still have all the letters that we shared, a notebook full, a folder full and all the ones you sent from when you moved back to Joliet. I'm always digging in them and reading them, and you still make me laugh. I'm sooo glad I saved those! I know you've been busy visiting your family, but you finally came and visited me last night in a dream. Thanks. I now know you are fine and resting in peace. You and Destiny keep helping Holly(mommy), Jason and Joey get through the days. I can't imagine the pain they feel. I will see you again in heaven, but until then, I'll see you in my dreams.REST IN PEACE!!!
I miss you... / Dawn Garcia (The next best thing... ) I dont know how I can have time to miss you if I am always on one of your sites. Here Myspace or reading everything in the papers over and over again. I think I know it all by heart. I dont wat to forget I want every memory to live in me forever. What ever forever means. I have to laugh at my baby, you know the one. When I talked to you talked to you, you said, "now who gave you their kid?" It's like I have a thing that I get all these kids all the time. But you my Dear Are The One The Only Brenda aka Mousey! You broke me in. You were the first of many but none came even close to you. Besides my biological children I have never loved a child as much as I Love You! Oh look I got all off track... I was telling you about the baby. You see I am on your sites and looking at your pictures so much even tho he has never met you or Mireya he knows who you both are. He sounds so funny when he tries to say Mireya, then my mind goes to how you put it on your myspace to say it right. Well honey he is only 3. Ill teach him how to say it right. He tries really hard and even rolls his R's. He says Mid-rreya. It sounds so cute. I just thought I would share that with you. Baby girl I love you. I will write again soon. Besos
1 month has passed. / Dawn (The next best thing... ) Ok now this shit is weird. You know how I am about my bills but come on... I was on myspace and getting ready to write you a comment and My whole thing shuts down on me. I try to open the page again and NOPE. You have no internet connection it tells me. So now what the hell myspace demon is trying to keep me from you??? Well it didnt work! My bill didnt have to paid till the 12th and all of a sudden they want it now. Ok you want it now you can have it now but Ill be damed if you gonna keep me from Brenda today. It has been a month and it seems like it was yesterday yet at the same time it seems like a life time ago. I just dont know how to come to terms with all this. I dont know. I miss yo so bad. I miss the time I didnt take advantage that you were here. I have no doubt that you knew I loved you and I truely believe that you loved me too. But it dont seem to ease this hollow feeling at all. I want to tell you I love you and to hear you say it too. I can close my eyes and see your face and hear your voice. Yet its not the same. I want more memories not just the ones I have. I want to throw your shoes out the window again and see you pout. I want it all. Is that too much to ask?... I guess so. At least I do have alot of wonderful memories of you. I wouldnt trade a single one for all the riches in the world. and you better be lucky I love you so much cuz you know Im a broke bitch. Well little one I hope this last month has been fun for you running and playing with Destiny. I really love you and miss you so very much. With all my love Dawn
sorry about your loss / Yazmin Garcia (met her when we were small )
my condolences to the entire time. I can't imagine how devastating this has all been for you guys. I pray to jehova God to give you all the strength you need to endure such pain. Continue supporting eachother and give her little girl all the love she deserves now that her mom is no longer with us. It may be hard to not think of the horrible way things went down but try and remember the good times each of u spent with her and cherish those memories. God bless you all and keep ur heads up
so sorry for your loss i made you something for your angel for v-day / Misty Mom 2. Angel Zander Hodges
happy v-day little angel hope you enjoy everthing sending my love to your mommy and keeping her in my prayers and thoughts so sorry for your loss just know that i am here for you. and you are in my thoughts and prayers i know how hard it is to lose one of your kids but one day we will see our baby's again. sending my love to you always love misty hodges mother to zander hodges.
Just thinking of you... as always / Dawn Garcia (The next best thing to a mom ) Hey chica, how is your day going so far? Mine well it is going. already 8:20am and Im ready for a nap. I could sleep for years. Yea not just days but years. I think of you so much that I make my own head hurt. I doesnt compare to my heart tho. It feels so heavy. So many I should haves and what ifs. I know you know what I mean. I remmeber the night you called me about Destiny passing. You were thinking alot of the same things I feel right now. I tried t tell you that we have no way of knowing what will happen and not to blame yourself. Only this could have opened my eyes to how real the pain is. Dont get me wrong I felt so bad and so hurt but honestly nothing like this. At first I thought that you and Holly had a fight because you said not to try to contact her on the computer anymore. You were crying so hard and I could tell something was really really wrong. Your voice was shatterd, I could almost not make out what you were saying. Then I got it. I was in shock. I didnt get details until later. At that moment all I knew is that my baby girl was hurting and I wanted to be with her. You asked me if I was coming and I said yes, without a doubt. I drove 240 miles through blinding rain, tears, and tornados to be with you. You were being so strong. I always admired that about you. You would look things in the face. Even when you were young. You never wanted anything to keep you down, you always said that one day you were going to be somebody. Baby Girl to me you always were. ALWAYS, You always will be somebody to me. Sometimes I think here she goes again, once again she is teaching me about love. You have tought me so much but I know this is one leson that I will never forget. Never NEVER let another put his hands on you. If it ever comes t that leave and go far away. I will keep that until I am with you again. I love you Brenda, Love the next best thing to your Mom Dawn PS Say Hi to Your Mom, My Dad, My sisters, Grandma and Grandpa, Destiny. I think you are all probably together and Between Your Mom and My Grandma I bet the food is mmm mmm good. I bet You, Connie and Janie are hooking up the mexican food and my Dad is sitting around waiting for someone to bring him a plate, And telling Destiny one of his never ending stories.
Condolences for Brenda / Linda Elliott (Passerby to site ) Dear Family and Friends of Brenda:
Please accept my deepest condolences on the departure of your beautiful Brenda.
I do not understand how human beings can be so cruel to others but they are and they should be punished. Hopefully that will happen in this case. Hopefully, Brenda's child/children are in the loving care of good people that will always teach them about their mother. Her pictures with her little girl looked like she was very happy.
I will pray for God to strengthen you and that you will feel Brenda's warmth and love with you until you are together again.
SOME HAVE A LIFETIME, SOME HAVE A DAY, LOVE IS NOT MEASURED IN THAT KIND OF WAY.
Condolences/ Judy Britt, Mom To Angel Jamie-leigh (just someone who cares ) Dear Holly, what a terrible tragedy. What is left of my broken heart goes out to you and your family. I do not have any answers for you or for myself as to why we are having to endure this living nightmare. I am waiting for the day when we will be reunited with our families and everything will be pure love and peace. May God comfort you with warm and loving memories of Destiny and Brenda until that day. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Another broken-hearted mom.
Keeping you and your family in our prayers / Neomi, Jerry &. Erin Miller (Family of Autumn, Michael & Gerald Miller )
In Loving Memory of Brenda & Destiny Holly, saw this picture and thought of your 2 beautiful angels (Brenda and Destiny) May they always be at peace and stay together until one day you will be reunited with them again. You will always have a special place in our hearts and the hearts of the many people who love and care about you. Forever in our prayers. Let your 2 angels soar with the eagles! Neomi, Jerry and Erin Miller
MY SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY OF PRECIOUS ANGEL BRENDA, WHEN I READ ABOUT ANYONE BEING MURDERED IT ALWAYS TAKES ME BACK WHEN MY DAUGHTER CYNTHIA HERNANDEZ WAS MURDERED. IT MAKES ME ANGRY, HURT AND SO MANY MANY FEELINGS OF SUCH A LOSS BECAUSE SOMEONE DIDN'T WANT A GIRLFRIEND, WIFE TO BE HAPPY WITHOUT THEM. I DON'T AND PROBABLY WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE MIND OF A MURDERER AND WHY THEY KILL YOUNG WOMEN BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT TO LET GO OF THEM? IT HAS ALMOST BEEN 8 YRS ON JUNE 11TH AND BELIEVE ME IT STILL FEELS LIKE YESTERDAY AND NO ONE IS EVER GOING TO TELL ME WHEN TO STOP GRIEVING FOR MY DAUGHTER. THOSE OF SUCH A LOSS GO ONE DAY AT A TIME AND WITH THE HELP OF THE LORD HE GIVES YOU THE STRENGTH TO MAKE IT, LITTLE STEPS AT A TIME. IT HAS BEEN HARD TO LIVE WITHOUT MY DAUGHTER AND MY LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME BUT I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU THAT WITH GOD'S HELP I AM STILL HERE. KEEP BRENDA IN YOUR HEART AND SHE WILL ALWAYS BE CLOSE BY, CLOSER THEN YOU MIGHT THINK. IF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK PLEASE FEEL FREE TO E-MAIL ME, GOD BLESS ALWAYS, LaRAINE MOM TO ANGEL CYNTHIA HERNANDEZ.
Peace/ Saladin Ahmid (Brother in humanity ) Peac be upon your soul BRENDA.
An Innocent Life Gone....Why? / Heather Blair (Passerby)Read >>
An Innocent Life Gone....Why? / Heather Blair (Passerby)
To Holly and the rest of the family I'm very sorry for your loss. I can relate to Brenda's situation cause I was once in her shoes but I guess God wasn't ready for me yet. It really breaks my heart seeing this site that should've never been made cause Brenda should still be here spending time with family and friends. It makes me so sick seeing the justice system wont protect someone from a coward that should have lost his life that day instead it was a innocent life that should've been spared. To have read your story it also makes me sick that someone could torture your sister or anyone for that matter the way they did her. Then to bring an innocent child into all this violence.......THAT MAN SHOULDN'T HAVE HIS LIFE SPARED FOR ANY REASON POSSIBLE!!!!!! I sit here with tears in my eyes reading your painful story and wish there was something I could do to help. Please know that you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Holly~You of all people would've known what your sister would have wanted in life for her beautiful daughter. Make sure you carry on those dreams sweet heart. You seem to be a wonderful person and someone who will forever carry on your sisters legacy! Try to keep your head held high......I'm sure that's what your sister would have wanted. Also make sure you show them cowards what this has done to you and your family......make them suffer! When push comes to shove fight for your sister......fight for her beautiful little girl. PLEASE PLEASE fight for her child.......take her away from those evil people out there and into your home......I'm sure you're a wonderful mother yourself! Holly you're a wonderful person and have made such a beautiful site for your sister. I'm sure she's looking down from heaven with the biggest smile ever........I'm sure she's so proud of you. With my deepest sympathy........from my heart to yours I'm truly sorry for your loss.
Remember Me / Angel Family Of John Drobnicki Read >>
Remember Me / Angel Family Of John Drobnicki
To the living, I'am gone. To the sorrowful, I will never return. To the Angry, I was Cheated. But to the happy, I'am at peace, and to the faithful, I have never left. I cannot speak, but I can listen. I cannot be seen but I can be heard. So as you stand upon the shore, Gazing at the beautiful sea remember me As you look in awe at the mighty forest and it's grand majesty, remember me Remember me in your hearts, in your thoughts, the memories of the times we loved, the times we cried, times we laughed and the life I lived.... For if you always think of Me, I will never be gone......
so sorry / Leanne Mom To Angel Lainey Quinney (passerby)Read >>
so sorry / Leanne Mom To Angel Lainey Quinney (passerby)
i am so sorry for what happened to your sister no one absolutely noone deserves abuse of any kind just to let you she is in better place where there is no hate and violence she is with our creator just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers god bless you all precious angels *hugs* to precious mireya Close
Angel/ Crystal Garneaux (none)
What a beautiful sweet angel, may you believe that she is with you and watching over you every day, keep her spirit alive and keep her memories living. Bless the family for having to go thru this and keep them safe and able to find Peace. Many Blessings and much love. Close
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